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Lifting the Veil of Secrecy |
The
Trinidad and Tobago Association of Psychologists (TTAP),
ttpsychassociation@hotmail.com |
THE EDITOR:
WE have cremated yet another son who has been buggered and
murdered.
We remember Sean Luke, Dane Andrews, Akeil Chambers and many others
who go unnamed.
As psychologists, we interact on a regular basis with children
who have been sexually abused by adults ... unfortunately, often
a trusted adult … a parent, a grandparent, a priest, a pastor,
a teacher, a police officer and the list can go on.
But the national anguish is even greater when a child is brutally
victimised at the hands of another child.
As psychologists, we listen with keen interest, the cries by an
angry community for the child perpetrators of Sean Luke to be
hanged.
Know this.
When a minor commits a crime of this horrific nature there is
an adult involved, either as a direct abuser or indirectly through
pornographic or violent movies, magazines or on the internet.
Children do not create such horrible crimes in a vacuum.
They usually are the result of traumatic experiences or exposure
to evil.
Ask any adult who has been sexually abused as a child.
The emotional scars go deep and the wounds take long to heal.
And the sexually abused in our society are many.
It is a silent epidemic, more widespread than we care to admit.
But in our country, we are more interested in laying blame than
exposing this deadly secret.
We want to distance ourselves from the “monsters”
who commit these crimes.
We decide that once you are of a different race, a different religion,
of a different parentage or live in a different neighbourhood,
you are not like us, therefore, we distance ourselves from you.
That way we can hang the “monsters,” pour salve on
our disgust and absolve ourselves from responsibility.
Such denial or flawed thinking is what keeps incest, molestation,
rape, buggery or other sexually abusive actions on children, alive
and well. In Trinidad and Tobago, we have interwoven sexual abuse
of children into the very fabric of some of our local communities,
extended families and even some of our religious practices.
These abusive actions are sanctioned by the deafening silence.
How many times have the police been prevented from making an arrest
because we chose to look the other way and protect our own?
How many family members tolerate these violations and let them
continue in exchange for money, material possessions and financial
security?
It is time to lift the veil of secrecy.
How can we do this?
Here are some suggestions:
* Obey the law.
The Sexual Offenses Act indicates that any person who has responsibility
for a minor for any period of time (teacher, guardian, counsellor,
parent, Sunday School teacher, scout leader, etc.) who suspects
that the child has been sexually abused, is obligated to make
a report to the police or face charges (a fine or jail term).
* Bring back the community police.
It is easier to expose abuse when the police are a familiar part
of the community.
* Social services, CBOs and NGOs must be available in every community,
especially our rural communities, where these services are scarce.
Service delivery in the form of education and counselling are
invaluable in raising consciousness and in empowerment.
Remember, these groups need our financial support.
Some are facing imminent closure because of a lack of funds.
It is time to “put our money where our mouth is!”
* It is time to form community groups.
We cannot “lift the veil” alone.
We need to be connected to each other.
Yes, it takes a village.
Truly there is strength in numbers.
Religious groups, schools, PTAs, civic organisations must gather
to share information and build safer communities.
* Use your political power. We need a public register of all individuals
convicted of sexual offenses so we can protect our children and
make informed decisions.
* Our mass media are largely uncensored and they’re becoming
more and more sexually charged.
Television, cable, radio, internet, movie theatres, newspapers,
magazines, music, all have a powerful impact on our children.
Demand that they clean up their act.
* Stay connected to our children.
Pay attention to them.
Children, who have a positive relationship with their parents,
teachers or other caregivers, are more likely to disclose when
something is wrong.
Yet, threats made by perpetrators can silence a child.
Here, parents and teachers’ observations are key.
An observant or attentive parent or teacher will be able to tell
that all is not well with a child.
* Do not quickly dismiss a child’s worries or concerns about
a particular person or place as nonsense.
Validate your child and give support.
Reassure your child of your protection.
Then keep watch to see if the child’s views are accurate
and if you have to intervene.
The well-being of our country lies in the hands of every citizen.
Let us “lift the veil” together.
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| ‘Point
people so stupid ...’ |
| K.
JOHNSON, Cap-de-Ville. |
THE EDITOR:
THERE is a lot of hypocrisy surrounding the protests against
industrial development in south Trinidad.
I am from Cap-de-Ville and I went to the recent march and there
were so many people from outside the area.
Imagine a well-known councillor left Mayaro and came to Chatham
to protest against pollution.
He passed all the polluted beaches and oilspills in his own backyard
to come and tell us to stop industrial development.
People came from Port of Spain to protest against damaging the
environment.
They passed by a natural mangrove swamp that has been destroyed
to make way for MovieTowne, Pricesmart and the Marriott Hotel.
They travelled all the way to Cedros ad Chatham to show how much
they love the environment.
I want to tell all of them that when they stop the pollution and
damage in their own backyards then they could come down south
and talk to us.
A lot of us are not into agriculture and we want well-paid jobs
just like the rest of Trinidad.
We want to drive BMWs and live in air-condition comfort.
While I was at the march, someone told me to check out a website
called “nosmettertnt” for the facts.
It is a waste of time and is full of political bias, racism and
bacchanal.
This is a piece from someone writing on the same website:
“Everyone here is only talking and talking.
“Point Fortin is a PNM stronghold and you people are so
stupid and backward that you will all vote for PNM even though
they are killing you in the end just because you want a n....r
to be the PM.”
Here is another one: “At Chatham Junction we meet up with
the demonstrators.
“They have come from all corners of the country to voice
their outrage and to show solidarity with the people of Peninsula.
The march begins just after 10 o’clock.
“We talk as we walk, introduce ourselves, answer the same
questions a few dozen times: Where allyuh come from? Quite Port
of Spain?
“The mood is upbeat and positive.
“We will stop ALCOA. They cannot come here.”
In their own words, these protesters are admitting that they came
from all corners of the country to “voice their outrage”.
But they don’t have to come down south to voice outrage
against pollution and environmental damage.
They could voice it from their mansions that are destroying the
hillsides of Maraval and Diego Martin.
They could voice while visiting MovieTowne or Pricesmart. And
they could voice it from their luxury cars while travelling to
work at Point Lisas.
If they are so concerned about pollution and the environment,
let them take out their money from any bank that is supporting
the same industrial developments.
Let them refuse to accept contracts, donations and jobs from companies
that pollute the environment.
They will never do that because they are too busy enjoying the
fruits of industrial development.
We in the deep south want the same thing.
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illegal drugs, guns in TnT |
MAYA STEVENS. |
THE EDITOR:
I WOULD like to tender this response to clear up some misconceptions
identified within an article appearing in the Trinidad Guardian
entitled “TnT not major drug trans-shipment point”.
To begin with, the given title of the article seems to imply that
Trinidad and Tobago plays a minimal role in the trans-shipment
of drugs.
This clearly undermines the gravity of our country’s drug
problem.
The author did not properly read and verify the information contained
in the International Narcotics Control Strategy Report (INCSR)
released by the US State Department on March 2, 2006, from which
the premise of the article was derived.
The article states that the present INCSR declares that TnT was
not considered to be a major trans-shipment point for illegal
narcotics (primarily cocaine, marijuana and also heroin) bound
for markets in the US and Europe.
This is not entirely true.
Though we may not be considered a major trans-shipment point,
a key portion of the increased flow of illegal drugs and guns
is finding its way here, and constitutes an additional challenge
for law enforcement.
A close study of the report will reveal that it stated that Trinidad
and Tobago is a trans-shipment point for illicit drugs, but is
not a major drug producing country.
Even with a rudimentary study of this statement, one would find
that this is in keeping with the address of the Minister of National
Security at the 2005/2006-Budget debate in October 2005.
Minister Joseph highlighted a number of reasons for the rise in
criminal activity in our country, one being that TnT was indeed
a trans-shipment point between the drug producing countries and
its consumers in the US and Europe.
The Minister of National Security clearly stated that discussions
with our international partners have indicated that the Southern
and Eastern Caribbean, including TnT, could expect to see increased
levels of drug transshipment.
This is due to the effects of Plan Colombia and the joint UK-Jamaica
anti-trafficking programme in Jamaica, which are resulting in
increased displacement and redirection of drug trafficking.
Trinidad and Tobago’s strategic location between the major
producers in the south and consuming nations in the north makes
this country particularly vulnerable.
The 2006 INCSR goes on to praise the current Government of TnT
for its continued co-operation with the US on counter narcotics
issues and the allocation of significant resources to fight against
illegal drugs.
It said that in 2005, the TnT Government, via the National Drug
Council, has implemented a number of elements of the counter narcotics
master plan, which addresses both supply and demand reduction.
The report further highlighted a number of accomplishments by
the Ministry of National Security, including the purchasing of
new technology to help combat drug flow and crime and the use
of training to make our police officers more efficient in coping
with the country’s crime problem.
It is apparent that the Ministry of National Security continues
to work extensively to relieve our nation of one of the major
causes of crime.
Why then don’t we allow them some time so that their crime
initiatives concerning drugs trans-shipment can blossom and bear
fruit?
The government has assured us that it will continue to identify
and remedy the factors that combine to create the cadre of men
and women who make it their business to subject law abiding citizens
to acts of crime, fear and terror.
I would appreciate if you would give this response some prominence
in your newspaper so that it would benefit the entire public.
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