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Madame

When a parent turns a blind eye

 
BECAUSE of the mood of the country, to say that people have been distracted in this Sean Luke tragedy could easily land you in trouble.

After all, the issue for most people is the brutality of the murder of the six-year-old which has shocked many folks who had been living with their heads too far in the sand to take stock of reality.

The real issue, however, is not buggery: it’s parenting!

While tens of thousands jumped on the emotional bandwagon, I could not help but wonder why the child was allowed to stray from his mother’s home, to walk across a canefield to the river with a group of boys, unknown to the mother, or any other relative.

And while my heart goes out to Pauline Lum Fai --- and her grief which those of us who have never lost a child can fathom -- I know that a lot of the anger against the two teenaged accused is misdirected.

PAULINE LUM FAI

PAULINE LUM FAI ...
grieving mom.

SEAN LUKE

SEAN LUKE ...
savagely murdered.


People should be taking stock of themselves, in this rounds, instead of simply pointing fingers in the opposite direction.

Even though the police deserve to be taken through the mill for callously refusing to help the woman -- in whatever way they could -- search for her missing child (is it because she’s poor and Black?) they cannot be used as the excuse.

Obviously, by the time the mother made the report to the Couva Police Station, the child may have already been dead, given the fact that news reports indicate that his body was already decomposing by the time relatives made the gruesome discovery, two days after he went missing.

So, I have been trying to pick sense out of the bits and pieces of information that have been coming out in the newspapers and have concluded that Pauline was asleep on the Sunday afternoon that her six-year-old went missing.

Now, whether you live in town or country, Port of Spain or New York, a six-year-old is considered a baby and should not be left on his own.

Nowhere in the past week have I heard that the mother asked the neighbour to keep an eye on him, while she took the afternoon nap.

Therefore, I am left to assume that the child was unsupervised, in the open yard, while his mother slept.

Knowing country life, there is no parent whom I know of would leave his/her child to the mercy of the village, not in this here time.

Instead, a parent ought to specifically ask the neighbour to keep an eye on the child and the neighbour, if the child is at his home, should also, whether the parent is aware or not, be aware of what’s happening in her yard.

Pauline, in one of her television interviews, said that she warned Sean not to speak to strangers.

Sadly, she failed to reveal whether she had drilled into his head that he should never leave home without letting her know.

In any event, once she became drowsy and knew that she would be taking a nap -- if the events really did unfold like that -- she should have locked the doors and kept the child inside, or, as I mentioned before, made a specific request for him to be looked after.

These are simple precautions that should be exercised since buggery, and all kinds of other gruesome sex crimes, are not confined to high society where it has been breeding for decades.

Remember Anglican Priest Father John Sewell who introduced his vice to a number of young boys?

And Hans Boos, the curator of the Emperor Valley Zoo, who landed in hot waters with an extensive library of pornographic material which included sex with children and animals?

What about the high society folks who were responsible for romping on Akiel Chambers, possibly smothering him to death?

Big men -- who are not necessarily homosexuals -- have been preying on little boys for years and we now have full-fledged child prostitutes.

It is all (unwittingly?) sanctioned by the very same society of people who have been creating campaigns and putting up websites, to make Sean Luke a martyr.

Now, they are all ready to lynch the two accused teenagers whose parents are obviously as ill-equipped as Pauline to deal with the reality that has busted open on them.

They, too, may have turned a blind eye on their children, leaving them to their own device, living in the dream world that they can do nothing wrong.

And, most importantly, hoping that the money which Education Minister Hazel Manning is wasting on promoting an abstinence programme for teens, would reach the children.

But it is too far gone; just read the article below and know that what applies to the US is relevant to TnT.

Sean’s buggery and murder is merely an extension of the absolute debauchery on Manzanilla Beach a few weeks ago!
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